Colors of Pleasure
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Thursday, October 5, 2017
Minimalism Accomplishments
There are a few things I've been working on, or started, and will take me some time. I'm more than half way through 'lecture notes & handouts.' And I've made some progress with 'scrapbooks'. I've done cleaners, but I don't know how to dispose of them, so I've been trying to use them up. I've heard rumor there's a hazardous waste drop-off day but depending on where you are, it may be only once a year. I'm not sure how to find out about it locally. Google?
Today I did Skincare, Samples & Travel sizes, Soap & Body wash, and Oral hygiene. I had a huge pile of lotion products I never use because I don't like creamy-type lotions, and I called each company and determined it's expiration date. There were two large bottles that were still in date, and one small hand cream that wasn't far enough past date that I felt it needed to be chucked. So the little bottle is in the bathroom. In theory, my husband occasionally uses lotion, but I suspect he hasn't actually in years.
I also found a second stash of medicines, so I went though all my medicines again and checked dates. I have a very full grocery bag to drop off at the police station. I called around and found my city's police department takes expired medications. I've also heard that some pharmacies do. There's still quite a pile of 'expired' medicines I think I'm still keeping. It's shocking to see how quickly the dates come up on them and how little of the product I use. It's shown me that most of the time I need to purchase the smallest package possible. I think I have about 6 medications that are actually within their use by date. I probably had about 50 boxes and bottles of medications originally.
I did the home school closet and added bubbles and water balloons into it because that seemed like a better spot than the kitchen... I hope. As long as the kids don't dump it out in the closet. I also added the twin sheets into that closet because that's the only room in the house with a twin bed, and it doesn't fit in the laundry room. It's way more useful and accessible in my son's closet, especially where he's wetting the bed often. I usually lock his closet, so he doesn't get into it.
Wednesday, October 4, 2017
Minimalism & Hoarding
I intend to have at least 4 kids. I'm pregnant with #3. I have both a girl and a boy and there's almost zero gender neutral clothes on the market. So I have 24 totes full of clothes for both boys and girls in every size from Newborn to 6T. I also have no garage and almost no storage area. Where do I put it all?? Is it worth a storage unit (especially since I'm renting out one bedroom in my house... which use to store the bins?) Or would it be more economical to repurchase those clothes again from the thrift store for every kid? (And go through the pain of scheduling a time to do it without the kids... or try to keep track of them while I'm shopping?) Then there's the 5 totes of holiday decorations and 2 totes with life jackets and outdoor toys.
The solution I came up with yesterday is that I'm going to do about 10 outfits and 5 PJs per size per gender. And they will be combined into a single tote. I'm done having a tote for boys 2T and girls 2T. They have to fit in the same 18 gallon tote. Then I'll just have to do laundry more often than once every two or three weeks. (feel free to laugh at me. I hate laundry.)
I realize a lot of these are things my anxiety are playing into, and you may not have these difficulties. Or you may have them in other categories than I do. But then there's the element of Perfectionism.
I have this grand idea that my home will look almost like a model home when I'm finished. No clutter, clean spaces, elegant decor. But I have two and a half kids and we actually live here. The whole house will never be immaculate all at the same time (and if it was, would we be bored???!) Secondly, I can't make my husband be a minimalist. If he wants 3 shelves full of computer parts, it's not mine to declutter.
More specifically, perfectionists have difficulty calling a category "done." It seems like it could always be slimmed down just a little bit more. Like all the 'maybe' items should have been 'no' and instead got left there as a 'yes' or 'i'll think about it a little longer' while you get mixed back in with the 'definite yes' pile.
Or thinking you wanted it to all fit in this designated spot, but after discovering that most of it 'sparks joy' it still takes up two or three times the space you intended for it. Aggravating.
Solutions
This is a work in progress.
Allow yourself to go through a category and call it "Done" even if it's not quite where you want it to be. There's no rule that says you can't come back and declutter it again. Check it off a visual list.
Give yourself some time to problem solve. Sometimes just trying to 'problem solve' sounds like a stumbling block all by itself (thank-you public schooling in America) but talking to someone about the issue, drawing up a diagram, or writing it out in a blog can help you work through the issue.
Tell yourself that it's possible to get through the pile. Practicing a positive attitude will help you achieve a positive attitude and positively influence your ability to accomplish it. Try to minimize your inner sarcasm. It will do you no good.
Take before pictures! No one does this because they forget or don't believe they'll really make a dent, and if thats true than you can delete the photos. But you can't easily remember what it looked like when you started, so you need it to be able to See your Progress to keep up a positive attitude and your motivation!!
Find a permanent spot for a "Donate" box and a "Sell" box. And even a "Maybe" box. This helps you not have random piles in the hallways that get knocked over and mixed back in with everything else. This process is going to take months and it'll be less stressful for the whole household if they're not tripping on donation boxes all the time. These boxes are your "tools" and tools need a home.
Beware of the floating piles! These are things that you want to keep but you don't have room for in that particular room in the house. As you declutter different categories and areas, these items float from room to room to room. The first solution is to determine where this item's home SHOULD BE. An example would be a humidifier that's not currently in use. Does it belong in your bedroom closet? Or should it be in the linen closet or laundry/utility room? The second solution is to declutter to the point that humidifier fits on the laundry room shelf (or build a couple shelves, if you don't have any. $10 at home depot.) If it's important enough to keep, then it deserves a priority spot on the shelf.
Watch YouTube videos and visit forums where people are trying to solve a problem. I've looked up things like "what college textbooks should I keep?" and "how I organized my craft room". They can be both motivational and helpful when you're solving your own issues. Sometimes I just need them to validate my concerns or fears and know I'm not alone in feeling like I'm 'throwing my degree away!' when I get rid of those college textbooks. Validating your feelings is huge.
Other Resources
My other favorite book about tidying (and time management) is called "Live More with Less: The gift of Minimalism: simplify, declutter, and get organized." It has probably 150 spelling errors, so beware, but it's probably the best book I've ever read to help a hoarder. It's also a fairly short read. I've read that book at least 2 and half times over the last 5 years.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18875064-live-more-with-less
Tuesday, September 20, 2016
Creative solutions to potty training
A- is 3 and a half years old and fully capable of using the toilet himself. Put he prefers to do good old number 2 in the diaper. So to encourage him, I have bought him prizes. In this case, small construction toys.
I've already learned the hard way that this child doesn't care very much about items, but he loves to open a surprise, just like Ryan does, on "ryan's toy review" on youtube. So they're all wrapped and in homemade boxes made from cereal boxes and yarn.
I realize these homemade boxes are ghetto and why would I ever put them up on a blog for show? Two reasons: they're fun and creative, but I won't be upset when my toddlers play with them and tear them up. After all, they cost me zero dollars and minimal time to create. And secondly, my kids will enjoy the puzzle and practice fine motor skills trying to get the yarn on and off of those boxes.
I use to think I should make and buy only quality stuff, but the last couple years have taught me that each kid has a different opinion about whats "fun" to play with, and usually the "trash" is their favorites. As I've been trying to create more "space" and eliminate "stuff", I've come to appreciate "disposable toys and entertainment" aka toilet paper rolls, boxes, dollar store puzzles, empty peanut better jars, etc. At toddler age, everything new is interesting.
Thursday, September 17, 2015
BBQ Cover
I'm so super proud of it, partly because it's such an unusual and useful thing to sew, and partly because it only took me two days! That's amazing with two little kiddos to take care of.
Best part is, I didn't spend ANY MONEY to make this!!! And I USED UP lots of ends of spools and bobbins! Like 4 spools and 4 bobbins, plus one, nearly full spool of navy blue. And the plastic piece that's on the string to cinch it off, I took off of the old shredded cover. WoOt!
Monday, December 30, 2013
Halloween Centerpieces
The jars are canning/mason jars that were chipped or otherwise unusable for food and canning.
I used orange acrylic paint on the insides of the jars. I should have used thinner in the paint, however, because it was so thick it took several days to dry. Also, if the paint was thinner, I could put little tea lights inside and make it glow like pumpkin lanterns!
For the black paintings on the outside, I used some random paint I had around the house leftover from other projects - in this case it was model paint; oil-based, clean with turpentine. It worked perfectly! Because it was oil, however, I did have to wait a couple days between painting the front of the jar and the back of the jar.
I used the design pages for carving pumpkins for my picture inspirations.
Then I cut out some 7x7 inch halloween fabric and screwed the canning ring over it!
Last of all, I made two table cloths. The purple pumpkin one is square to fit this fold up card table, and the orange cats/bats one is 6 ft long to fit my kitchen table.
Monday, August 12, 2013
Unique Picture frames
Friday, July 19, 2013
A Zillion Meals
About a month and a half ago we bought a Blendtec - Classic Series (blendtec.com) - a fancy blender that competes with the Vitamix (vitamix.com), but is less expensive with only minor differences. ($330 at Costco; Occasionally on sale for $300. Amazon and other sellers sell it for between $400 and $550, fyi.) It came with a fancy recipe book and it helped us learn how much liquid to fruit/veggie to frozen ratio to put in the jar in order to make the perfect smoothie/ whole juice/ milkshake, etc. My husband has a heavy-on-veggie smoothie every morning for breakfast. I have a milkshake about every 3rd day, and we share a icey fruit smoothie every other evening. It's great! We've also noticed our digestion systems have been performing much better than before. :-D
So, because of having this blender, we were going through fruits and veggies quadruple-y faster than before. So we started ordering produce from a co-op called Bountiful Baskets (bountifulbaskets.org). It costs less getting fruits and veggies from there than it would if I bought the same amount of stuff from the store. However, we won't know what's in the basket till we pick it up on saturday morning. However, that hasn't been a big deal for us, because we'll eat and enjoy most anything, and we're familiar enough with the blender, we don't need to work too hard to follow the 'official' recipes.
Chilean Milkshake
http://www.lafujimama.com/2013/06/chilean-banana-milkshake/
I had this growing up, but not in recent years until I ran across this blog. I got 80% through making it before I realized it was just a double recipe of the one I made as a kid. My only suggestion is occasionally using blueberries instead of vanilla. It's Incredible!!!
Napa Cabbage Salad
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/napa-cabbage-salad/detail.aspx
I got a huge Napa Cabbage in our Bountiful Basket, we barely managed to fit it in the fridge... Allrecipes seemed to have 30 versions of this, so apparently there's only one mainstream way to use a Napa Cabbage. I liked this recipe, but I probably won't go buy Napa Cabbages every month.
Key Lime Cookies
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/key-lime-cookies-ii/detail.aspx
These cookies were great! Only thing I'd do different is put it in a better storage container - I kept accidentally leaving the lid off on my rubbermaid, and the cookies dried out and got crunchy too fast. Oops. I'm also only so so on having lime peel in them.
Tostones (Fried Plantains)
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/tostones-fried-plantains/detail.aspx
I always thought plantains were some sort of weird huge banana and when I found this recipe, I was convinced it'd be a dessert. However, think "banana flavored potato."It was good. It's often served with rice and beans (actually a Winco bulk recipe of beans - I'll get to that later), and that's what we made with it.
Lettuce and Tarragon Soup
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/lettuce-and-tarragon-soup/detail.aspx
Great for using up lots of lettuce - we had a gazillion heads of it with Bountiful Baskets coming every Saturday. Not as wonderful as leftovers, though.
Plum Flummery
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/plum-flummery/detail.aspx
LOVE THIS! Kind of like Jello meets Pudding. We've made this twice in 3 weeks with the plums that come with Bountiful Baskets. I generally don't like plums, but in this, Love it.
Beets and Greens
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/beets-and-greens/detail.aspx
I'd never purchased beets before, and had only had a bite or so here or there, enough to know that 'I think I like it...' Great recipe and I'd definitely make it again. Less desireable as leftovers, however.
Perfect Mashed Potatoes
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/chef-johns-perfect-mashed-potatoes/detail.aspx
I love this recipe - I'm getting pretty sick of "easy and fake mashed potatoes", however, my husband would prefer a creamer version than this - so add more butter and milk!
Sauteed Garlic Asparagus
http://allrecipes.com/recipe/sauteed-garlic-asparagus/detail.aspx
Great way to use asparagus and enjoy it. Delicious. Also, check out this blog to discover better ways to store your asparagus in the fridge!
http://www.alwaysorderdessert.com/2011/05/how-to-store-asparagus.html#.Uei-7GR4bpU
Now for tonights Dinner adventures:
Yesterday upon listening to Dave Ramsey's on KNRS, he mentioned a company called eMeals.com - you pick a meal style - classic, vegetarian, low carb, low fat, natural & organic, gluten free, etc and they send you a weekly meal plan (You can sign up for dinners only or do 2 or 3 meals a day with food plans. Groupon.com occasionally runs deals with them). They also compile a weekly grocery list, you check off what you already have and go to the store, buying only 2 lemons, 1 large tomato, etc, so that you aren't buying more than you can use or eat in a week or so of time. Less waste.
I went shopping to day with that list, and it took me less time to shop than usual, but more than I expected, simply because I didn't know where everything was or what everything was. However, I'm sure I'll get faster as I learn. The hardest ingredient to find was Farro, which I did not succeed in finding. I called about 4 health food stores after leaving Winco (who didn't carry it,) to see if they carried it. All said 'No' but one said they were looking for a supplier for it. I ended up buying Spelt as a substitute (found at Good Earth Natural Foods). There were several substitutes that were recommended on various websites including Bulgar, Barley, and Brown Rice.
I would like to mention that for one week of dinners with eMeals, my checkout cost (plus the spelt), rounded up to the nearest dollar was $55. (actually that's 6 days not 7; I skipped one meal because I am not a fan of Scallops.) If there are 4.5 weeks in a month, that's $248 for dinners. And I'd like to mention I bought 4 TYPES OF MEAT (6 chicken breasts, 1/2 lb pork loin, 1 lb. 2 (4oz) Salmon fillet, and 1 lb. flank steak). I usually only buy one type per week, and we go a little heavier on veggies - that is, when I remember to cook dinner. Sometimes we end up eating chips and snacks.
What I'm trying to say is that between January and June of this year, my grocery budget has wavered between $230 and $500 - with a median close to $370. Using eMeals to help me plan and cook, I'm predicting, it will make my budget a lot more regular, and cost less on average. But we're not having "beans and rice, rice and beans" either. On my way out of Winco, I'm often tempted to grab a chocolate bar or treat of some kind, but this time I wasn't. Why? Because I am getting spoiled with steak! Who wants crappy candy when you're getting a gourmet meal?
So today's recipe was Creole Pork Chops and homemade Creamed Corn. I'm never going to back to canned creamed corn again!!! Homemade was like sweet candy in my mouth and I didn't add sugar! Just husked corn, butter, chicken stock, salt and pepper. Wowzers.
Almost lastly, upon perusing the bulk section at Winco (wincofoods.com/recipes/), I discovered that there were items there that looked fun to try and many of them had recipes to go with them... sitting right next to them. I've tried a couple of them... and they're on the website (theoretically), but it's not easy to search without a bin number, so I may have to go find those before posting. I considered doing that now, but it's almost midnight, so I'm going to end this rather long food post.
Oh, oh, one more thing... I've been visiting an Asian food store - it's within walking distance of my house - I either bring a recipe with me or have the person working there help me pick one... then they walk me through the store and get the ingredients for one meal. I've done yellow curry and vietnamese spring rolls so far. It's very exciting learning asian cooking and realizing it's not as hard as it looks!
Note: An alternative to eMeals, for if you would rather specifically pick the meals you want to eat each night, I suggest looking at Allrecipes.com pro version. They do basically the same thing as eMeals, but you pick your meal plan and it costs less per month for the membership. Don't worry about trying to pick recipes with similar ingredients because your only buying exactly what you need for each recipe, so it likely won't save you any money. But perhaps, after you've done it for a couple or few weeks, you might pick recipes where some of the ingredients are in their peak harvesting time - they'll be on sale and taste better.
Great Cooking!